Would you click your fingers at a waiter in a restaurant? Or start texting midway through a conversation? Of course, you wouldn’t! Manners and etiquette are the staples of a civilised society and just because you’re going to a club where ladies take off their clothes as part of their job, it doesn’t mean you have the green light to treat them how you wish. To ensure you don’t upset the ladies and have your evening cut short, please observe the following etiquette of a striptease bar!
You are not a Neanderthal man – they’ve not been around for a long, long time. Even though strippers exude sexiness and show off their bodies, they get paid for it, it’s their job. They don’t want you to grab their body parts, or pester them for sex, no matter how much money you offer them. It’s a striptease bar, not a brothel! If you want to have sex, find yourself a lady of the night and you’ll get what you pay for, otherwise, your unwanted behaviour will mean the end of what could have been a lovely evening!
Mind Your Language
Certain phrases might be funny when you’re in the company of other men, but the girls working in a striptease bar are not impressed by crude and sometimes downright offensive language. Would you like it if a guy spoke to your mom or sister in the same manner? Watch your p’s and q’s and treat the girls as you would any other girl you fancy or are friends with. Be respectful, have a chat and a giggle, 4Play Lounge girls love to get to know their clients and would never be rude or talk down to anyone visiting the club. We expect the same from you.
Be A Gentleman
They are called ‘Gentlemen’s Clubs’, so think about how a gentleman would act. Read and make sure that you understand the rules of a striptease bar, if you don’t understand, just ask! Any of the girls would be happy to keep you informed, if you don’t realise that you get to enjoy one of the girls’ company for as long as her drink lasts. It’s the norm in a club like this. There’s nothing worse than a guy who thinks he’s ‘in there’ just because one of the girls has agreed to have a drink with him. You are paying for their time and attention, you’re not there to pick up a date!
Overall, it’s good to remember that however you act in a regular nightclub is generally how you should behave in a striptease bar. If you’re confused about this, get some advice, either from guys who visit them regularly or from the girls themselves – they don’t bite, unless you’ve really been rude!